Men are like clay.
Clay? Yes clay.
When a clay is dry sosai ba yanda za a yi ka iya molding din shi. When you try too hard it breaks.
But if you can water it for a while, massage in water.
Do it some more,
Before you know it its soft and you can mold it to any thing you want to.
Be it a 3 legged dog or a human head with out a nose.
Toh its the same with a man walahi.
There is no ready made man, he might be financially stable but not a 100% how you want him.
You have to work girl.
You hands must get dirty.
If only the women that are in control in their houses tell you how they started, wahalhalun da suka sha da mazajen su, you would be shocked.
Shi na miji wuya sha’ani gare shi.
Ana nuna mishi gabas ya na yamma na nufa.