Know that you are born special, a light of the world, an impact, a turning point in history, and a force to be reckoned with. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.
Know that in you lies a special potential, a beautiful gift, an expansion of wisdom, an explosion of ideas and expansion of wisdom and I guess you know what to use that for. Because for every wasted potential alternatively lies an endangered society, a risked generation and a community that is being played with.
Know that you do not need the society to dictate what they want you to be, do not let them crowd your judgements, influence your behaviours and pilot your plane. You are supposed to reach for the stars and beyond it. And if anyone, anyone wants to drag you to the ground, detach them from yourself and let them sink with their own negativity.
Know that it is okay to have emotions, it is okay to feel sad when you are sad, to cry when you need to, do not let them tell you that being a man means emphasised and that masculine means to be macho, to be woody, to metallic and steel at heart and hardened in the soul. No, that’s not what being a man is. Being a man is knowing, feeling and understanding because in you lies a heart that beats and pumps blood through your veins, a brain that thinks and twinkles with positivity, a living soul that is alive and well.
Know that helping your mother, sister and wife when you later get married, in the kitchen doesn’t make you any less than a man, it only emphasizes and stresses your role as one; a helper, a supporter and a pillar of joy and happiness.
And know that envy, instability and anger against humanity is not supposed to be one of your traits. Rather, embrace humility and gentility towards them and help in all ways possible.