As a woman the same way you try to avoid certain men, you also need to take a minute and think about the kind of woman you are. You need to understand and identify what you might be doing wrong while dating them and whether the kind of woman you are attracts men or sends them away. We all know the right man will come and you’ll get married when God wills, but you also have to recognise if you are the reason why men never last. I’ve tried to come up with 5 types of women below, try and see if you fit into any of them because after speaking to a few men, they have agreed they find these qualities to be unattractive.
If you fall into this category then you are very bossy. You like telling men what to do, how to do it and when to do it. And when they don’t do it, you will start vexing anyhow. Some men at first might think this is a good thing because it makes you a boss lady, but he is a grown man..you’re not his mother neither are you his teacher. Therefore not every man would entertain this behaviour .
This woman is always talking about what other people have and how she wishes she was them or owned what they have. There’s nothing wrong with wishing you had a luxurious car or a big house, but to constantly compare yourself to others will scare off the man thinking he can’t keep up with you because you’ll always want more. The man would think you’d never appreciate what you have and that’s a good enough reason for him to leave.
This woman is always talking about other people with her partner in a negative light. Most times she starts the gist with “I’m not supposed to be telling you this but…” that’s an immediate red flag! It’s normal for couples to gossip but once in a while. When men see their woman is making it a habit they wouldn’t trust her as much because they’re afraid if things don’t work out, you’ll expose their secrets! Even worse..he’s afraid if he marries you everyone will know your business.
This woman plays hard to get a bit too much. There’s nothing wrong with playing hard to get but you need to know when to stop especially when you’re actually interested in the guy. At first , men who meet “the former”, enjoy the chase knowing she’s not easy but at a point they will just give up and move on to a woman that will be straight forward because you refuse to let them know if you’re interested or not.
This woman has trust issues probably because her previous partners have broken her trust way too many times. At the beginning men who meet this woman understand her pain and try to reassure her they are nothing like her previous partners and they won’t break their heart. However, she still can’t help her jealousy and accuses men every single time, sometimes even causing drama out of nothing because she’s insecure. Men try to avoid overly jealous women because too much jealousy isn’t cute.
Men want a straightforward and easy going woman, and at the end of the day they’re looking for a mother for their kids. With these unattractive qualities , it will make them second guess if you are the best fit. Just try and be yourself ! He will love you for who you are but also try to keep those qualities under control as mentioned above.